What Year Of Marriage Do You Give Diamonds? The Sparkling Guide to Anniversary Gifts

Let’s be real—marriage is a marathon, not a sprint, and every year deserves a little sparkle to celebrate making it through another 365 days without hiding each other’s coffee mugs as an act of war. But when do you bust out the big guns (or, in this case, the big diamonds)? If you’ve ever found yourself staring at a jewelry case, sweating over whether it’s too soon for bling or if you’re accidentally committing a romantic faux pas, this guide is for you. Spoiler: There’s never a *bad* time for diamonds, but tradition does have some thoughts.

Whether you’re celebrating your first year or your fiftieth, anniversary gifts follow a sweet (and sometimes bizarre) timeline of materials, from paper to diamonds. But let’s focus on the shiny stuff. After all, nothing says “I’d still choose you after you left the dishes in the sink for three days” like a glittering gemstone.

The Diamond Anniversary: When Do You Give Diamonds?

Diamonds take center stage at the 60th anniversary—yes, six whole decades of putting up with each other’s quirks. But before you panic and think you have to wait until your golden years to gift something dazzling, here’s the good news: Diamonds make appearances earlier, too. The 10th anniversary is all about tin or aluminum (yawn), but modern interpretations include diamond jewelry because, let’s face it, no one wants to celebrate love with a soda can. And the 75th anniversary? That’s when you go all out with diamonds *and* gold. (If you make it that far, you deserve a crown, not just a ring.)

Diamonds for Every Milestone (Because Why Wait?)

Who says you have to follow the rules? If your partner drools over tennis bracelets or has a Pinterest board full of engagement ring upgrades, surprise them early. Here’s how to justify it:

• 1st Anniversary: Traditionally paper, but a pair of diamond studs says, “I’m in this for the long haul.”
• 5th Anniversary: Wood is cute, but a Toi et Moi ring with diamonds screams, “We’re growing together.”
• 25th Anniversary: Silver is classic, but a diamond eternity band shouts, “Let’s do another 25.”

Diamond Alternatives for the Rule-Breakers

If you’re not into tradition (or your budget is more “paper” than “platinum”), consider lab-grown diamonds or other gemstones. A sapphire pendant or ruby ring still packs a sentimental punch without the wait. Plus, they’re just as stunning.

The Bottom Line

Diamonds are forever, but so is love (ideally). Whether you stick to the timeline or blaze your own glittery trail, Robinson’s Jewelers has the perfect piece to mark your milestone. Browse our anniversary collection or go rogue with a statement cocktail ring. After all, love doesn’t follow a rulebook—and neither should your jewelry.