The Guy's Guide to Wearing Necklaces Everyday: How to Look Sharp Without Trying Too Hard

Let's face it, guys—accessorizing can feel like walking through a minefield. One wrong move, and suddenly you're channeling your uncle's 1985 prom look. But here's the secret: men's necklaces are the easiest way to elevate your style without overthinking it. Whether you're a minimalist or a maximalist, there's a chain, pendant, or layered look that'll make you look like you woke up this stylish. And no, you don't need a personal stylist to pull it off.

From the boardroom to the bar, a well-chosen necklace can be the difference between "meh" and "damn, who's that?" So, let's break down the rules (and how to bend them) so you can wear necklaces every day without looking like you raided a pirate's treasure chest.

The Foundation: Choosing Your Everyday Chain

Not all chains are created equal. Some whisper sophistication, while others scream "I won this in a poker game." For daily wear, stick with classics like the Cuban link, rope chain, or box chain. These styles work with everything from tees to tailored suits.

Pro tip: Start with a medium weight—too dainty disappears, too chunky becomes a workout. 18-22 inches is the sweet spot for length, hitting right at or just below the collarbone.

Metal Matters: Gold, Silver, or Something Bold?

Your skin tone isn't just for sunscreen decisions. Cool undertones? Silver or white gold will look killer. Warm undertones? Yellow gold or rose gold is your best friend. Neutral? Lucky you—everything works.

And let's settle this: mixed metals aren't a fashion crime. Pairing a Roberto Coin gold chain with a silver pendant can actually look intentional and modern.

Pendants: Less Is More (Usually)

A pendant can turn a simple chain into a personal statement, but there's a fine line between meaningful and "why is there a miniature sword hanging from your neck?" Medallions, coins, or subtle initial pendants add personality without overwhelming your look.

Exception to the rule: If you've got the confidence of a David Webb wearing, rock that bold pendant—just maybe not to your cousin's wedding.

The Art of Layering (Without Looking Like a Christmas Tree)

One chain: classic. Two chains: interesting. Three or more: you're either a rockstar or trying too hard. The key to layering is variation—mix lengths, textures, and weights. Try a shorter cable chain with a longer curb chain, or add a pendant to one chain for dimension.

Brands like Roman & Jules and Sofer Jewelry offer perfectly proportioned pieces designed to layer seamlessly.

From Day to Night: Necklace Edition

Your 9-to-5 necklace shouldn't look out of place at 9 PM. For work, lean toward subtle lab-grown diamond pieces or slim chains. After hours? That's when your Hulchi Belluni statement piece comes out to play.

Bonus points: Keep a spare simple chain in your desk or gym bag for unexpected occasions that call for a quick style upgrade.

Necklace No-Nos (Unless You Want Side-Eyes)

1. Showering with your necklace—chlorine and saltwater are kryptonite to jewelry.
2. Wearing a necklace that's tighter than your skinny jeans.
3. Letting your chain get tangled like last year's Christmas lights.
4. Choosing costume jewelry that turns your skin green—invest in quality from brands like Oscar Heyman or Tiffany & Co.

Final Pro Tip: Confidence Is the Best Accessory

The coolest necklace in the world won't look good if you wear it like you're waiting for someone to make fun of you. Own your style. And if anyone questions your new jewelry habit? Just tell them Robinson's Jewelers said it was mandatory.

Ready to build your signature look? Browse our men's collection—because the only thing better than one perfect necklace is having options.